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Toi et Moi
Two stones, side by side — you and me. The toi et moi dates to Napoleon's proposal to Josephine in 1796, and its two-stone asymmetry has made it one of the most talked-about designs of recent years.
Choose the shape of the centre stone first — our diamond shapes guide shows how each outline behaves — then read the diamond 4Cs guide to understand what you are paying for. Every setting here can be made in platinum, 18ct or 9ct gold, with a certified natural or lab-grown centre. Every ring is ethically crafted with transparent pricing and complimentary resizing for one year, backed by free, no-pressure advice from our London team.
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